“Crossing a Threshold” by Peter Bankson
October 5, 2014
Seventeenth Sunday after Pentecost
I have come to a place in my journey that seems to reflect Paul’s experience in this week’s Epistle reading: “Not that I have already obtained all this, or have already arrived at my goal, but I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me.”
I find myself in a wondering how I can continue to mature (or grow old) in Seekers Church. What’s the question
What can I do to find clearer understanding of my emerging place in Seeker
How can I get some rest?
LOOKING AHEAD … BY LOOKING BACK
Last March, when I turned 75, I realized that a month later I would observe my 25th anniversary as a member of our Servant Leadership Team. A third of my life! What difference, I wondered, might those milestones make, for me, or for anyone else?
Our work in the Arizona desert that week raised the idea that I might be facing another one of those thresholds. I began to ponder whether it might mark a transition in my life cycle from Gift to Legacy. I wondered whether a threshold like that would include stepping aside from my place on our SLT, and whether it would ever be possible for me to do that and still be part of this family of faith.
The other question that came into focus while I was at Ghost Ranch was a bit smaller: “How can I set down some “busyness” and still be useful, accepted?” That one cried out for some deeper discernment.
Those thoughts of mine brought up images of the Apostle Paul musing about his shifting relationship with Jesus: against, then toward, then for, then with. I don’t usually identify much with the Apostle Paul, but this time there was something in his commitment that spoke to me.
I needed to pause at the threshold, but I felt too busy.
PAUSING FOR DISCERNMENT … FINDING CONFUSION
I thought it might help me if I set myself some deadline, so I signed up to preach on the Sunday after we returned from the pilgrimage in July. I thought that a commitment to preach might help focus my attention so that by then I would have some insight on my two questions. But as we returned it felt clear to me that as a community we needed to share about the experience we had helping build the library building in Panamachavac, rather than have me take this time that Sunday to tell you what I had discerned. Because, in fact, I hadn’t discerned much of anything beyond the deep awareness that I was too busy to do much discerning.
So I glanced at the upcoming lectionary and when I saw that the Epistle for this Sunday included Paul talking about running the race, I signed up. I figured that today might be a good time for me to talk about finishing the race. I was still running on auto-pilot, thinking that 75 plus 25 (my age and duration on the SLT) were somehow mystical markers of some hidden truth. (Do they “add up” to 100%?)
Somewhere along in there, probably while I was away on Matinicus with Marjory, helping the Matinicus church for a few Sundays, I took a fresh look at the two questions from Ghost Ranch and thought a bit about the second one, about setting down some stuff. Sitting on the parsonage porch, crocheting a wastebasket out of discarded lobster trap rope, I got the sense that if I could set down some of what I’ve been carrying I could probably push it along with less effort than it took to carry it. And it just might be easier for me to get help pushing things along if most of us were pushing the “stuff” rather than you pushing me while I tried to carry it.
But once again, when I got back home there was so much to do that I stayed on autopilot, moved on by my TO DO list. It was pretty clear that I was too busy to do much deep discerning.
I can relate my sense of the weight of day-to-day burdens to the patterns of the Israelites trying to survive in the desert after escaping from Egypt. I can imagine that they felt pretty much overcommitted, and the commandments they received from God through Moses might have felt like a clarifying light, beacons for behavior akin to the pillars of smoke and fire that were their guidance as they made their way in the wilderness. Good rules, but with not much room (or need) for discerning something new.
I’ll bet it wasn’t easy for them to go on retreat while they were in the wilderness. Maybe that’s one reason why it took them 40 years to find their way just over 200 miles through the unknown to the land that God had promised.
Last week, as I got around to really reading the Epistle for the week I’d chosen for sharing some thoughts about my commitment, I realized that this week’s Epistle isn’t what I thought it was. I thought I would be working with 2 Timothy 4:7:
“I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith.”
That’s a clear invitation to talk about something I still didn’t feel really ready to claim: stepping aside from the SLT while asking you to continue to accept me as a Steward of Seekers Church.
No, this week’s Epistle includes Philippians 3:12-14:
“I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me. Brothers and sisters, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus.”
This sounds a lot more like a mid-course correction than landing instructions. I took my earlier quick decision to preach today as a sign that it was OK to look at the second question from Ghost Ranch, the one that calls forth the line from Jesse’s new hit CD: “Lay down your heavy burden. Come away and rest a while.”
ON RETREAT
Last weekend at Dayspring felt like a retreat for me, although I did feel the responsibility for guiding our experience in the silence, our time apart together was a good reminder of how important it is to take time for discernment.
I invited those of us on retreat to spend some quiet time reflecting on a threshold we could see before us. I asked that we look at the process of passing through the “liminal space” that we encounter at a life threshold, and think about the kinds of companionship we might engage to help us cross to the other side. Liminal Space is a place where the border between rational and mystical becomes very thin. It’s the place where we are much more likely to dream dreams, or see visions, or catch a glimpse of the realm of God that is totally unexpected. It’s a place where I may well be close enough to the Realm of God that I can reach around the corner behind my back and touch it.
Richard Rohr has reflected a lot on this liminal space as a place of “strategic confusion” where I find myself. Here is an interesting introduction from the web site inaliminalspace.com:
One image I used was the boatman from “Siddartha” by Herman Hesse. The boatman is waiting at just the critical point to help Siddartha cross the river, and when they have crossed they part company so the boatman can be there for someone else.
I’m convinced that Jesus sent his followers out two-by-two for a very good reason – so that they could walk together through the liminal space where they can engage uncertainties of their new calls and not fall back into their old “either-or” thinking.
RECOMMITMENT
In an interesting way, my sojourn in liminal space fits nicely into our annual recommitment here at Seekers Church. In our preparation we invite each other to reflect on our commitment to this intentional Christian community, to take time to discern whether God’s call is evolving in new directions. Annual recommitment is an uncommon practice for most churches, but for us it’s an acknowledgement that as we grow and change, our understanding of God’s call is likely to change as well, and the path of those changes leads through liminal space.
My next step appeared quickly after the silent retreat. Last Monday I came up here for the SLT meeting that was on my schedule. After coordinating the agenda for the Stewards’ meeting this evening and a deep and compassionate conversation about pastoral needs within the community, we had half an hour of good questions about my discernment concerning the SLT, or lack of it.
During that conversation Brenda raised the idea of a “fast.” What would it be like, we wondered together, if I were to take a “fast” from those burdens that feel so heavy so I could give myself some Sabbath time to go deeper into my discernment of God’s call on my life?
I’m in the process of identifying and describing some of the things that burden me. Here are some examples that I’ve recently identified well enough to consider setting down:
Tending our gallery downstairs. After serving for a decade as the “interim coordinator,” I’ve handed that to Sandra, who has the lead. It feels good to be able to affirm her initiative and help push now and then when she lets me know she needs a hand.
Maintaining the front page of our web site, inviting or writing fresh articles with community news to share with the wider world.
Administering the back end of our web site, controlling access to the admin section and monitoring how all of us who have stepped up to maintain parts of the site are doing.
Maintaining the all-Seekers e-mail list.
In truth, I enjoy doing most of these. The “burden” is actually more about my attitude than my actions. I tend to assume that if I see something that needs doing and no one else is tending to it, then it’s up to me to pick it up. Actually, it’s the criticism I load on myself when some need surfaces among us and I haven’t already fixed it.
I don’t know where my discernment will lead me. For the moment I think I need to fast from some of the self-identified responsibilities that feel so heavy. At some point I will need to step into the liminal space around that bigger question and search for a way to step aside from the SLT but hold onto a place as an elder in this family of faith.
CLOSING
As I pondered that twisted trunk, I wondered how the persistent pressure of my sense of personal responsibility has put a twist in me.
So, I’ll be working with Brenda and Trish to find some ways to claim a “discernment fast” for a while, so I can work with my SLT review team on the larger question of what will it mean for me to plan, when the time is right, to step aside from the SLT and still stay in the community, to cross the threshold from servant leader to active elder.
I’ll close with the ending of this week’s Psalm lection:
19:14 Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable to you, O LORD, my rock and my redeemer.
Amen.